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[VIDEO] Label Me, Negate Me, Hate Me

“Once you label me you negate me.”
Søren Kierkegaard (Danish philosopher, 1813-1855)

It’s been said that no one is born naturally hating other people and that’s something I happen to agree with. So where does that hate come from? I have a few points I’d like to bring up and I want you to hear me out on this because this is important.

Do you ever get sick and tired of those damn liberals pushing their Progressive agenda, blaming government all the time for not doing enough for the poor and minorities while they push for policies that will just further bankrupt the middle class and ruin our country?

Maybe it’s not the liberals. Perhaps it’s all the conservatives who are really to blame, since it’s obvious to anyone who has eyes that they are all marching in lockstep with the corporations and the affluent 1% to destroy the middle class and keep us all in chains of financial bondage?

Then again, it might not be the political system at all, it’s just all these damn foreigners who keep polluting the American dream by taking away jobs and opportunities from honest US citizens who shouldn’t have to compete with these mooching immigrants for jobs they are entitled to.

On top of the immigration problem, when you look at all the lazy poor and welfare queens out there who are just getting a free ride on the backs of the hardworking middle class, the very people who slavishly support these shiftless slackers so they can sit around playing Xbox and yap on their iPhones all day, it’s enough to make me sick.

But you know what makes all of us sick? The fact that toxic babble like all the nonsense I just spewed flies around the airwaves and social media all day long and we take it in and use it to shape how we see the world and how we treat each other. The truth is that none of what I just said has anything to do with real people nor does any of that generalized, hateful rhetoric solve even one of the myriad of social, economic, religious and political problems we all face.

So what’s the problem?

Why We Label

It is an easily observable fact that the human mind excels at pattern matching. We look for patterns or shapes that are familiar to us in our environment. There is nothing wrong with this – it is a crucial element in our very survival to be able to recognize things we have seen before, to have on file the traits and characteristics of things which we need to get along in life.

However , the mind can sometimes be too good at this. Often we can see patterns or shapes in things that are actually just random jumbles of different elements. Examples of this happen every single day, such as seeing monsters in cloud formations, thinking an open shower curtain is a person waiting to pounce on you in the bathroom, or seeing faces on almost everything from a piece of toast to the side of a building. Scientists and skeptics have even coined words to describe this pattern-making trait of human thinking, calling it apophenia and patternicity.

The human mind likes things to be orderly and familiar. It is directly related to our sense of security and control. If things are random or jumbled about or when we are in unfamiliar territory, we feel that we are not in control. When things are orderly and in place and familiar, this alone can have a natural calming or peaceful effect.So, when things are not familiar, the human mind will invent connections or associations that don’t actually exist. This is far easier for most people than to recognize and deal with the fact that something just doesn’t make sense or isn’t familiar or has to be considered in a new light.

To Label or Not to Label

Putting a label on something is a method of pattern recognition or identification. When you have identified an illness as “smallpox” or an individual as “John Doe” then you no longer have any confusion about who or what that thing is. Labelling or naming people and things certainly is necessary or we truly would live in a world of utter random chaos. We would never be able to communicate to each other about anything.

But labeling has a dark side. It can be used too broadly or too generally. This far too frequent practice occurs every day in the media and in our personal lives and actually serves to get in the way of our ability to think. More often than not it leads directly to false identifications, incorrect
assumptions and wildly wrong conclusions about individuals, groups, organizations, religions, social causes and political issues.

Where Labels Can Go Wrong

When a thing is named or labeled, the mind assigns that thing certain characteristics or makes conclusions about it based on the label. For example, I could think that a Ford car is made in America and therefore is more expensive, of better quality and will be more rugged or solidly built than other cars.

I could also think that because a Subaru car is made in Japan, it’ll be cheaper in price, probably has more electronic components, is compact and is not a vehicle I would want to be in if it was rammed from the side by a large truck. These characteristics are all assigned by me automatically to any car with a “Ford” or “Subaru” label on them.

Now am I right in making these assumptions?

An atheist is a person who has no belief in any gods of any kind, is completely intolerant of any kind of faith-based thinking, wants traditional holidays banned, gets into heated “discussions as often as possible with people who do have faith (especially Christians) and is usually a sexist. An average Christian, on the other hand, is completely intolerant of any other belief system, goes to Church every Sunday, believes the Bible is God’s literal truth and is also historical fact, thinks all science is a useless and stupid waste of time and wants everyone on Earth to realize that they are basically evil. If every time I meet an atheist or a Christian, I assign these traits to them, do you think I’d be welcomed with open arms and make some great new friends?

Generalities

Of course all of the examples I’m giving are completely wrong. The problem is that I am making broad genera lized statements about a whole class of people or things which obviously do not apply to every individual person or thing in that class. You can call these “labels” but another more accurate term would be “generalities”. In the list of logical fallacies, this is called “faulty
generalization” and is a form of “jumping to conclusions.”

Identifying a broad class of people with a label is obviously necessary for purposes of classification or census or statistics. It’s extremely helpful for medical personnel to know how many people have type AB blood in a given area. A medical census could quickly establish this and you could have a broad category of “AB blood types”. It’s also helpful to know how many people consider themselves Christians or Mormons or Hari Krishnas, when one is seeking to get
demographics information for a population sample. This information has certain practical uses in PR and marketing, for example.

It becomes problematic when a broad label, a generality, is applied to individuals or groups as a substitute for thinking or a reason to be intolerant.

Generalities Stop Rational Thinking

Generalities are very dangerous to thinking because they are actually thought-stopping. When someone uses a generality to identify someone, they no longer have to “think” about that person. In fact, the generality serves as its own sort of mental image or picture of the person. So you get this odd phenomenon of people not arguing with the person in front of them and dealing with their ideas and beliefs, but instead arguing with some kind of false generalized
mental creation of a “liberal” or a “Christian” or a “bigot” instead.

This is the basis of almost all predjudice, which by its very nature is faulty logic.

Truth is a specific thing. Joe Jones is a specific individual with his own set of ideas, conclusions and beliefs. You can’t argue with Joe Jones by labeling him as a “liberal” and then coming down on him for every single thing any “liberal” has ever said to you. It might feel good to “vent” against Joe Jones, but you certainly won’t be changing his mind by telling him that he thinks and
feels things that he doesn’t.

Be An Active Thinker

It is easy to be a lazy thinker by using generalities. We do it all the time and it’s a very bad habit.

It takes practice and work to break out of generalized thinking. It will greatly enhance your own ability to think rationally and clearly by recognizing generalities in your own thinking and cancelling them out whenever you find them. Talking about “evil conservatives” or even “evil Nazis” is easy to do but it’s not rational and it’s not any kind of accurate reflection of the real
world.

The real world is complex and full of variety and differences. Generalities are some people’s attempt to make complex issues or situations simple and easy to understand. H. L. Mencken said “For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong.” Unfortunately, sometimes things are just not easy to understand and require us to work hard to be able to grasp them.

Generalities more often than not lead to a chain of logical fallacies and wrong conclusions which just bungle up your ability to see the truth. Avoid them like the plague. This is another key element in critical thinking.

Thank you for watching.

5 thoughts on “[VIDEO] Label Me, Negate Me, Hate Me”

  1. Great insight and post.

    Of particular interest to me lately is intentional labelling, and especially incorrect or slanted labeling.

    When we seek demographic information about “religion”, we’re really seeking information about thoughts and ideas and perspectives. That’s a fairly benign usage.

    But when some labels a neighboorhood as “predominantly Islamic” (in the US) , that is not a benign usage. This is a hate crime. This person is intentionally trying to incite religiously biased anger at a group of people who may or may not fit the public perception of that label.

    This is how sociopathic people do their work. They find words or phrases that are widely misunderstood and mistrusted, then apply them to whomever or whatever they seek to destroy. For example, it’s recently been popular in the US to the apply the word “cult” to major world religions with large, established churches, large membership, publically accessible facilities, and a general public who generally live normal, American lives. Jehovah’s Witnesses and LDS (Mormons) are just two well known examples.

    The intent of this is to create discord and fear by associating these established, progressive, and entirely peaceful organizations with other “cults” of the past – Suicide Cults, Satanic Cults, UFO Cults, and other popular buzz-phrases that have captured the American imagination and fear in the past.

    Another example is when someone chooses one tiny part of an organization’s operations where things are “not quite right”, then projects the charactersitics of that tiny sliver across the entire populace. Worse, this is just a person’s PERCEPTION of how things were in that tiny sliver of a major global organization. For example, we can see people attempting to vilify an entire population of republicans as being greedy and corrupt because some small republican group was found to be involved in a market manipulation scam.

    Yet it remains that, as long as the general population is susceptible to suggestion and is anxious to hear tales of fear, anger, and danger, there will be sensationalists and sociopaths ready to exploit it.

    Are there solutions? One is to try to stop sociopaths from operating, another is to teach people to recognize and stop them (for most, simply “ignoring” is enough to stop them). Is one more likely to succeed than the other? Are both doomed to failure? I can’t be sure, but my PERSONAL observation is that it going to be easier to educate the public than to get people to stop trying to profit from the promotion of fear and distrust.

  2. That is an excellent video Chris – very insightful! I think I’d really enjoy hanging out with you 🙂

  3. “Thought stopping”, that is what generalities do.
    Wow, that makes you think, doesn’t it?
    Soon after making a generality we become unaware of having done so.
    Mindfullness is the game, to be sure. Question everything, for as long as you do you are alright.

    The other day a woman posted here. Said she was a “respected” practitioner since 1950, then got kicked out for ethics violations or whatever, and, then she makes the paradoxical conclusion that LRH and the church of Scientology is a valid and vital organization driven by good intentions, that she was simply
    ” mishandled”. Here was a devoted member, expelled and experiencing disconnection first-hand,
    – and still defending the church, and specifically the creator L. Ron…?

    I’m sure most the rest of us where wondering how this could be.
    That other word you used, apophenia, offers explanation.
    Ron has a truely beautiful way of presenting information. If you can swallow a few assumptions such as “I am the discoverer of this technology.” and “I am the only source of Scientology” he follows with all kinds of beautifully crafted prose, self-evident prose and very neat and tidy facts, all in the same, cleverly logical style so that, well, a new form of apophenia begins to take hold within the mind. It is a form of generalization, which is a way of not thinking. This time, the thoughts are in favor of a thing instead of a prejudice against a person, and that thing is Scientology.
    It is all by design, is my argument.
    L. Ron Hubbard literally wrote the book on Ethics; he created the term “out-ethics” and “ethics cycle” wherein a practitioner is tested and put on trial for having thoughts critical of the church or the founder or whatever. And the practitioner, quite heavily invested by that time, is very much inclined to believe it all is for the good of humanity, blinded some time ago without being aware that long ago he or she started generalizing in favor of the church, not thinking about validity whatsoever, just anything that had the tag Scientology attached to it had to be right, and I do mean absolutely right. Logic left the story in the middle of the dream.

    In other words, Scientology is brainwashing.
    The lady who posted tells a very important story.
    She obviously had spent the prime of her life devoted to the church. She is still in love with the idea and LRH today. One has to commend her for speaking here, for she knew full well her opinion contrasts the views; that is courage. And, she sounds just like me.

    When I was kicked out, I still defended the church. I also thought that I was just “mishandled”. I remember using the word.
    It took a huge pile of facts and a good number of high-level ex-Scientologists for me to come out of my fog.
    Ron makes this connection between Ethics and the Human Condition. He makes a scale, putting Power at the top and Non-Existence the bottom. He gives you step-by-step directions, things that you “must” do to move off the bottom and on to the next, higher, step. To do anything other than the precise, prescribed thing would move you down two steps, requiring you to do a do-over. Repeat until you get it right, is the Scientology way, as all Scientologists are quite aware. By requiring all Staff to assign numerical “Stats” to their jobs, the Scientology supervisor has a means by which he can assign a specific “Condition of Existence” to his junior. He could simply say to you as your boss, “Sorry, you didn’t do this particular step, I have to knock you down.” In Scientology, the supervisor would never be wrong making this conclusion. In Scientology, all the faults and flaws rest with you, obviously, because after all you are the “Preclear”.
    The lady quoted this action as “Ethics”, said it was how she was routed out. She also said it, her being fired, was all based on something not real.

    The book on “Ethics and the Conditions of Existence” was no mistake.
    It was all very carefully, thoughfully contrived, along with the 100’s of policy letters surrounding it.
    Closer examination reveals that the motivation behind it all was to keep everybody in line, crushing criticizm and so “Believing”.

    Yes, brainwashed, constantly and very well as long as you are in, is truely the correct word.
    Sometimes, even well after you are out.

  4. Chris

    I agree with your point in labelling. It’s often laziness I think, and taking the easy way to make a bunch of assumptions and then launch into an argument. As an atheist (ex-catholic) who sometimes has discussions with Christians I do usually take the time up front to ask a few clarifying questions because I’m well aware that there are dozens (probably hundreds) of versions of Christianity, and even within one mainstream version people will differ in their views. So to save time for me, and the other person, you can get a few basics out of the way. With Christians there are a few touch points that help understanding – inerrancy of the bible (yes/no), exclusivity of salvation etc… By asking a series of questions and listening (not debating) you can get a clearer of a person’s outlook before you even start.

    I liked something Christopher Hitchens once said about free speech. He said words to the affect that if he was in a room with a thousand people discussing a topic and everyone was in general agreement except one person, then that one person’s opinion is the most valuable and must be heard even if they are wrong. Especially if they are wrong. You can often learn a great deal about your own thinking by assessing someone else’s arguments whether or not they make any sense, and you have to be open to changing your mind or adding some extra insight. Like Hitchens, I sometimes seek out and enjoy considering contrary opinion just for its own sake even if I know I’m not likely to agree. An example is Mein Kamf which I read not to be convinced by the ideology but just to at least try and better understand what it was. I’ve also read stuff by KKK on the Internet. You can go too far with delving into contrary opinions but sometimes it is interesting to find out from the source – what does Hitler think about the Jews? What dies the KKK say about blacks. Etc.

    You may like this clip by an atheist which is self-critical of the way some atheists engage with Christians.
    http://youtu.be/zzfCBj9h2Xk

    Cheers

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